Ghosting: A Widow's Voyage Out Hardcover by Barbara Ascher

Product Details

• Publisher: Pushcart Press (2021-12-07)
• Language: English
• Paperback: 265 pages
• ISBN-13: 9780960097760
• Item Weight: 294.84 grams
• Dimensions: 8.96 x 5.98 x 0.54 cm

Winner of Pushcart’s Editors Book Award,Ghosting is a love story that is as much about life as it is about death.

Married at a young age to an older man , neither he nor she doubted that he would predecease her; but she discovers that there is no preparing for the loss a beloved. Their marriage was a passionate 35 year love affair, as if the odds against its longevity engendered a rare intensity. She discovers that love has no boundaries, grief is not eternal and ?her husband’s motto “Life is a love story” is so very true.

Ascher writes passionately about her unlikely marriage, her husband’s illness and death and her ensuing sorrow. A witness to the insanity that grief visits upon its victims with a seeming determination to destroy, she gazes straight into the eye of grief and does not blink. In time she moves beyond that grief - her voyage out. 

Ghosting is, by turns, moving and funny, tender and brutal .

The wonder of Ghosting is that Ascher, like Montaigne, calls forth Everyman. 

About previous books:

Pat Conroy on Dancing In The Dark:
“One of those books that wakes you up to the life you have failed to live,…What a wonderful book.”

Publishers Weekly on The Habit of Loving:?
”With her sharp, unflinching eye, she discovers wonder and truth at our very doorsteps.”

Boston Globe on Landscape Without Gravity:
“Her honesty touches the reader’s heart, opens the scars of old wounds, and helps heal them…wrenching, insightful…compelling”

Eudora Welty on Playing After Dark:
"Barbara Ascher has a serious mind and the gift of a light touch."

About the Author

Barbara Lazear Ascher is the author of four nonfiction books: Playing After Dark (Doubleday), The Habit of Loving (Random), Landscape Without Gravity (Viking Penguin), and most recently Dancing In The Dark: Romance, Yearning and The Search for The Sublime (Harper Collins). She has been a columnist for The New York Times and Elle Magazine; and a book reviewer and ?contributor to NPR, The Yale Review, The Washington Post and many other newspapers and journals. She lives in Springs, New York on Long Island’s East End.